The First Mark of a Disciple: Love = Obedience
This is not about guilt. It’s about clarity.
Answer prayerfully and honestly. Let Jesus form you, not shame you. Rate each statement using this scale.
Am I following Jesus, or only agreeing with Him?
I measure my love for God by obedience, not just feelings.
When Jesus’ Word confronts me, I submit rather than negotiate.
I obey promptly, not eventually.
I do what God says even when it costs me comfort, popularity, or control.
Do I obey because I trust His heart?
When I don’t understand, I still trust God’s wisdom over my reasoning.
I obey from love, not fear, because He loved me first.
I believe God’s commands protect my future, not restrict my life.
I don’t redefine obedience to fit my preferences.
What I do first reveals who I obey most.
I give God my first time, not only my spare time.
I prioritise prayer, Scripture, and time with God even when busy.
My schedule reflects my values, not just my pressures.
I say no to things that distract me from obedience to God.
I do not use busyness as an excuse for spiritual neglect.
I make time for what God asks me to do, not only what I want to do.
Obedience begins in the mind before it appears in behaviour.
I take sinful or negative thoughts captive quickly.
I do not entertain thoughts I know are not pleasing to God.
I renew my mind with Scripture rather than feeding fear or worry.
I refuse bitterness, jealousy, lust, pride, or revenge in my thoughts.
I bring my thoughts into obedience to Christ.
I do not justify wrong thinking just because no one can see it.
My words reveal my obedience.
I avoid gossip, slander, and negative talk.
I speak truth even when it is uncomfortable.
I apologise quickly when I am wrong.
I use my words to encourage rather than tear down.
I control my tongue when I am angry or emotional.
I do not complain or grumble when things are difficult.
Love for God is seen in how I treat people.
I forgive people quickly and do not hold grudges.
I treat people with respect, patience, and kindness.
I pursue reconciliation when relationships are broken.
I do not manipulate, control, or use people for my benefit.
I honour my commitments and relationships.
I choose obedience to God over sinful relationships.
Integrity is obedience when no one is watching.
I work with honesty and integrity.
I arrive on time and honour my responsibilities.
I do my work as if I am working for the Lord.
I do not cut corners or do the minimum required.
I keep my word and honour commitments.
I am faithful in small responsibilities.
Obedience is tested where surrender is expensive.
I obey God even when it costs me comfort.
I obey God even when it affects relationships.
I obey God even when it affects my plans.
I obey God even when others do not understand.
I choose obedience over convenience.
I choose obedience over reputation or approval.
Disciples are not those who obey once, but those who continue obeying.
I remain faithful even when I feel discouraged.
I continue obeying even when no one notices.
I return quickly to obedience when I fail.
My obedience is consistent, not occasional.
I am more obedient today than I was a year ago.
I want to finish my life faithful to Jesus.
Answer the remaining 50 statements to see your summary.
Choose one to practise this week.
Start. Stop. Stay.
Do not skip.
A disciple is someone who has decided that obedience to Jesus is no longer optional.
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